Last wed me,mashi and Anizah went to Times Square after work to watched a movie since Mashi's dad will pick her up quite late that day. we decided to watch this movie coz the title it self is catchy and my sister who had watched this movie recommends it so that we the ladies would know what actually in guy's head.
I am not 100 % agree with the movie nor 100% disagree. Coz for me in the relationship it is all depends on us. The exceptional is for you to decide not the guy. But the part where a Alex realized that he had fall for a Giegie when she stopped contacting him, I cannot deny more. It is always like that in the real life notwithstanding for a guy or a girl.
further, if we realize, we tend to overreact when we paranoid.Just like Janine and her husband. U love that someone but because of something bad happened in ur past sometimes can make urself hurt ur partner. Even it is true that ur partnet is wrong but there is a better way for u to overcome the situation. But I always don't understand why must u find a replacement when u actually not trying to fix the prob. Ok...just look at Janine, they obviously have a major prob in their marriage (they never have sex life) but the guy easily fall in love with Anna and slept with her. But the funny part is when Janine found out and mad that her husband cheated about the scandal but not as mad as when she found that he's smoking.
Then there is an issue when Beth wanna get marry badly but her bf didn't coz he didn't belives in marriage where he believes that they can still live happy together. But he said he loves her. Loves but dont want to get marry. Ape la. But same as Alex, he realized that he wants to spend his whole life with and only Beth when they broke off.
Another story is about Mary. Mary is a friend to Anna. She is in process to find the Right Man. However, the problem is when most of the guy that she knows is through the internet. So not healthy r.ship if u ask me. Internet nowdays is used as an alternative for a person to widen their so called community. But she never met him. So, how does she knows that he's the one. Trust me it is hard when u r in the virtual relationship. No phone calls at all. No emotion (the emoticons do not count) involves. And the most important no personal in touch.
Surely, the story ended with a happy ending. Nvrtheless, we have to remember prob occurs in a r.ship not bcause only one side but both sides are playing the important role. It is us to decide whether it is good or bad for us.
I recommend this story for those who haven't watch the movie. Just for fun and learn from it if it is applicable to u.
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