Saturday, March 16, 2013

Changed

Alhamdulillah. It is all I can say when I got to know my friend starts wearing hijab. From my experiences, they had the intention long before they wearing it and I am glad that they made up their mind to wear hijab permanently. I admit, they look more beautiful. 

Maybe ada orang yg not wearing a hijab yet pikir 'I'm not good enough' or 'Ala, kalau pakai tudung tapi buat dosa juga, takde different pun'. Yes, it is true indeed. Berhijrah bukan senang especially if you are surrounded with community yang judgemental or suka cakap belakang or berkawan dengan orang yang memang tak pakai hijab. Tapi niat yang ikhlas yang baik akan dipermudahkan oleh Allah swt and honestly when you wear a hijab slowly and automatically you feel embarrassed to do all the benda yang tak elok sebab eventually you will feel that you are obligated to jaga your tatatertib and cara pemakaian. 

Family mainkan peranan penting. Give your spouse/ daughter encourage to wear it. Tak perlu nak perli2 sebab bila perli manusia akan sakit hati, bila sakit hati orang tak nak ikut. Buat rugi je. 

Honestly, when I started to wear I still wear short or 3/4 sleeves, selimpang tinggi, and ada time bila around rumah tak pakai pun. But as time past by, slowly I changed, lengan panjang, tak nak baju ketat or pendek, labuhkan tudung (tapi kadang2 terlepas jugak). I also try to control my words and perangai. 

So, tak perlulah nak pikir banyak sebab as a Muslimah we have to cover our aurah and kita masih boleh lagi berfesyen.

And yes, I feel safe when I am covered :) 

I really hope one day org yang saya sayang akan pakai hijab coz you are prettier when you wear it :)


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