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Assalamualaikum. 

Last weekend memang our house full coz most of the siblings were here with the family. So rumah yg selalunya sunyi jadi 'havoc' dengan suara budak2 gelak. We were talking about names then my eldest niece ckp in her class ada 4 org nama AIsyah. Nurul Nur Aisyah, Nur Aisyah then ada sorang ni that her nama memang menarik perhatian because her name is Aisyah but people called her Bella budak hot. I was like 'apa, budak hot?'. The reason is because she got followers laki more than perempuan dalam twitter. So I  searched her in twitter (skodeng time..ehem..). Twitter tak private, followers berlambak almost 2000++. fuh! scroll tgk gambar, read the tweets. Basically budak ni tak tweet pun. byk tweets because of the followers statistic. Gambar byk selfie with muka ala2 comel.

Actually bukan nak cakap pasal ni but i want to write about social media. As we know Malaysian is top 5 to have social media account. so you can imagine hebat tak hebat rakyat malaysia dalam up to date pasal benda2 ni. Memang tak surprise la if budak sekolah rendah pun ada account FB, Twitter or IG. I don't mind psl tu tapi wat makes me menyampah is the pictures they posted. Selfie muka ala2 comel tu dah biasa sgt but gambar half naked. i fell sad for them,the parents. I am wondering, parents diorg tak tau ke. Pastu like 100 n mostly lelaki. Saddest part is yang liked and post gambar are Islam, melayu. And God knows if ada org yg just save our picture in their phone. Have we ever think about it? Trust me it happens. Gambar yang bertudung pun ada org nak save, gambar yang tak bertudung? Think about it please.

Sumpah, sometimes nak nangis tengok their picture especially yg kita kenal. I just pray for them, to realise that this world is more to explore, this world is fulls with cabaran, that their life is a long way to go. Another thing that makes me sad is org yg comment or likes are those yang ada blood related or best friend. Shouldn't a good friend/person tegur if they really love them? Kesian dengan parents mereka. Mereka masih muda. They have potential tapi I don't want them to be successful person tapi gaya macam ni. I have been through my teenage life and I regret few things I did. I don't want them to regret in their future like me. I pray that someone could lead them to straight path.

Takut dengan dunia sekarang. Teenagers selamber letak pictures mcm2. Dulu nak post pikir dua tiga kali even parents bukan dalam friend list. I know u didn't wear hijab but please jgn letak gambar yg nampak hampir segala-galanya. Tak manis!

At this point, I am bersyukur sebab my niece tak ada any media social account. At least she listens to her mother. I always tell her 'tak payah ada account FB ke IG ke'.

I am not married and I am afraid if I have a child, could I raise them properly? Penuh dengan kasih sayang, Islamic knowledge in this horror world? I hope I can when I have one :)

aci?

Terlalu ramai yang buat statement and tanya soalan di bawah. So this will be my script.

Aci?

P/s: some questions shouldn't be asked coz we have no answer for that.

Respek pls!

Somehow I need you to respect my feeling too....

Kaki kena gam

Tika detik jam terus bergerak,
Aku masih disini,
Tika manusia gerak ke depan,
Aku masih lagi kaku berdiri,
Tidak ke depan, tidak pula ke belakang.

Hati yang rapuh bagai berkecai taktala
Ku melihat kau dan dia,

Aku diam membisu
Tetapi hati dan perasaan ku berperang.
Lantas aku teringat

'If you are not for me, than you are not good enough for me'

Ku sujud padaMu ya Allah,
Memohon kekuatan dan keampunan,
Ku berdoa agar kau terus bahagia bersama si dia,

Usah berpaling lagi,
Akan ku mengorak langkah pergi.


01082013
1024am

Ini kalilah, Lain kalilah, Apa-apa jelah

Assalamualaikum.

I'm not sure how to start this. Ok, firstly, results GE13 semua kita dah tau and this time memang buat sejarah. Perang in social media, mass media. Tiap2 hari kat timeline either Twitter or FB mesti ada pasal election. Kalau dulu guna bendera, posters, bunting but since masyarakat Malaysia dah celik IT maka media sosial pula digunakan as medium utk berkempen. 

This post is not to comment who won or who lost in the election but the purpose I write is because I am sad/ sick of the people who commented and shared in social media. Bahasa kasar, carut-mencarut, maki-memaki. Few days before the day of election, I told my friend 'dah tak sabar nak tunggu 5 Mei 2013 sebab I just couldn't bear to read/ listen to the comments.' I don't mind people share info tapi kenapa sampai tak de adab? Mana pegi akal dan iman bila tulis and bagi statement. 

Now, after 2days, timeline still penuh dengan GE13. Demam post-GE. Statistik, pendapat/ ulasan from ahli akedemik, individu semua ade tak kisahlah from which side. I read both. I analyse and still analyzing the information. Saya tak nak tgk siapa yang tulis tp i want to know the point. 

But, this time around, timbul soal racism aka 'tsunami cina' or whatever they called it. Today (7th May 2013), Utusan Malaysia punya title front page 'Apalagi Cina mahu?' dan 'Mereka amat racis-Ali Rustam'  menimbulkan situasi tak senang. Baik for the chinese, Malay or other races. 

Sabda Nabi saw:

"Wahai manusia! Sesungguhnya tuhan kamu sama, bapa kamu sama (Adam). Ketahuilah! Tiada kelebihan orang arab ke atas 'ajam (yang bukan arab) atau 'ajam ke atas arab, atau yang berkulit merah ke atas yang berkulit hitam, atau yang berkulit hitam ke atas yang berkulit merah melainkan ketakwaan" (Riwayat Ahmad dan al- Baihaqi, dinilai hasan oleh al-Albani)

Personally I would say that mass media plays an important role to unite the Malaysian because what they published would take as a reliable source. Orang akan terima fakta tanpa buat kajian di sebaliknya. Tanyalah makcik2, pakcik2 or parents kita yang memang tak exposed to internet, what source do they have to get information? They will answer from television and newspapers mainly. Tapi kalau dah headline and ayat yang digunakan tu boleh disalahtafsir and kelak membawa kepada kehancuran, macam mana? Moreover, it came from a mainstream newspaper. I know, media ni sometimes diorang nak dapat attention so they create bombastic punya headline or manipulate what people said when being interviewed. Choose your words carefully. Dari benda yang sekecil zarah kalau disalah tafsir and disalah lapor akan jadi sebesar dinosaur tau. Dari benda yang tak da lah apa2 sangat boleh membawa kepada satu kehancuran.

Same goes with kita orang biasa. Your words can harm others and can worsen the current situation. As a muslim, saya percaya kita semua tau yang Islam cintakan keamanan, menolak racism. Kenapa mesti ada sifat macam tu dalam diri? Cukuplah maki-memaki dan membuka aib orang sebelum PRU, kenapa perlu ada episod seterusnya? 

"The media's the most powerful entity on earth. They have the power to make the innocent guilty and to make the guilty innocent, and that's power. Because they control the minds of the masses."- Malcom X.

Saya malu dan sedih sebab kita maki org Islam juga. (sobs!) Kita tunjuk sifat buruk kita kat bukan Islam macam mana non-Muslim nak terima agama kita? nak gunapakai undang-undang Islam? Each of us has our own part. Be honest when you do your role. 

Yang kalah stop pointing at others. Reflect yourself, what you have done wrong. Perbaiki, buat strategi balik Kalau anda memang ikhlas bertanding untuk memperbaiki negara dan agama, Allah swt akan permudahkan. Mungkin your time hasn't come. You might thing you are ready which actually you are not. Teruskan berjuang kerana perjuangan yang ikhlas dan benar akan diberi kemenangan oleh Allah swt.

Lastly, bacalah juga non-mainstream newspaper or listen to independent source supaya kita boleh tau pro and cons sesuatu benda. And if your thoughts are wrong accept, buat kajian, read more. Be matured. 

Saya seorang Muslim. Saya cintakan keamanan dan keadilan. Saya tolak racism.

Saya ada kawan cina, india dan macam2 lagi selain melayu dan saya ikhlas berkawan dengan mereka.

Maaflah jika ada yang tersinggung bila baca apa yang saya tulis ni. This is my personal view. Saya insan yang  kerdil. Banyak lagi saya tak tau. 

Yang baik itu datang dari Allah swt dan yg buruk itu dari saya sendiri.

Wassalam.